It’s my party and I’ll laugh if I want to.

Posted: July 21, 2012 in Uncategorized

So it’s my Birthday again, I’m having a great day and it’s only 9:55am, actually my day was started at 12 midnight by a surprise candle from the Hillingdon Street Angels, I was on duty till 4am.

My oldest child who is really sensible pronounced my age as if she was making a new law, my younger daughter who has a Christmas attitude to everything told everyone I was 28. I decided to go with the latter.

I’ve also found a really amazing new freedom. It’s called being single and being ok with it. When you first become single you go on a dating spree. I joined dating sites and got nowhere. Since I’ve got to the point where I’m actually ok with being on my own for the rest of my life, I feel a lot less under pressure.

Its not I’m not open to a relationship but at the moment it’s that I am happy where I am at. Removing the pressure of talking to random strangers on dating sites frees you up to do useful things. I’m still on those sites and I still check my messages but I don’t NEED to be there, if no one talks to me it’s not the end of the world, because I realised that even just with Facebook friends I am not alone. The manifold greetings sent from around the world remind me that it’s ok to be single.

Anyway here’s to another year of things getting better. 

  1. Alan Bainbridge says:

    Happy Birthday Paul have a good day, peace & love to you, from Alan.xx

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